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How to be a better lover!
5 ways to please your partner
| 1. Be more concern about your partner then yourself. I will say this again especially for guys! Be more concern about her being satisfied then yourself! |
| That’s if you want to keep seeing her, after the first time you are intimate with her. See there are a lot of unsatisfied women out their guys and it’s the guys fought! You are the man, and a women want you to prove to her that you are in every possible way you can especially in bed. See women want to be romance, they don’t want a wham bam thank you ma’am love making or sex session. If a women is in bed with you, that means she was turn on enough by you to even be their in the first place so make it special! Don’t disappoint her because you might not ever get that chance again! Remember you don’t get a second chance to make a first impression, and believe it or not sex is very important to a woman and how you make her feel while you are having sex with her can make or break rather you are going to be around for the long haul!! As for women, don’t worry that much about pleasing him, see women worry to much about that! You can be turn on by a man and most men want a freak in the bed, but you can’t be to worry about pleasing him because it will make you too aware of what is going on! Let the man be a man and take you the the promise land! |
| 2. Take your time! Ever heard of the 1 minute man? Well the quickest way to never seeing her again is being just that!! |
| Another problem men have is they don’t take their time, and most men only have one shot, and when they cum they to take a break for a while so you have to learn how to make it last! Ever heard of the 1 minute man? Well the quickest way to never seeing her again is being just that!! Women hate that, and if you are that type that cum to fast, oh you better believe she is going to find herself someone who can last longer! Trust that! So make it last, do you know a man can make a women cum multiple times just by touching her in the right places? A man hands are a very powerful tools on a woman’s body if he knows how to use them right! Foreplay is very importation in a sex or a love making session! If you just pay attention when you are rubbing on her body, her body will let you know what feels good to her! And by all means don’t be to rough, not unless she tells you she likes it rough, but for the most part be gentle to her soft sweet precious body. Woman are made to be soft and smooth and a lot of women spend a lot of time and money on oils and lotions to stay that way so don’t be too rough! I know guys get carried away sometime but hay slow down and enjoy the moment. Be only concern with pleasing her and making her feel like she is the only women in the world! Let her fantasy be one of the best she will ever have and if you do it right, take your time and pay attention to her body, make her cum like she never came before she will remember you and that experience for the rest of her life! Guys I know you are macho beings and most men don’t want to asked about how to please a women but we all have to learn and it’s ok if you don’t know! Whats bad is being to bull headed to asked! I have study woman’s bodies for 20 years and have been with over 1000 women and I have make 99% of them cum and/or have multiple orgasms the very first time I was with them, so if you want to know more about how to please a woman just email me. |
| 3. Talk softly to her while your making sweet love to her! Let her tell you what she likes, some women like that and they will tell you just what to do. |
| See men want the be the man in the sack but sometimes you have to back up from the macho man role and let her take the lead! It don’t make you less of a man, but if she wants to show you what makes her feel good let her! I know it maybe hard but step back and let it happen, she will like the session more if you do that! So be open and let her do what she want to do. See most men will cum, regardless because men are the aggressors and if they want to have sex with a woman they are thinking about it, before they even get into the bed! So most of the time they are going to cum regardless, this is why I tell women that don’t put to much on pleasing him let him please you and if he is doing a good job of that, he will be turned on enough to be pleased! It’s true trust me! Now if you are a freak and you just want to be freaky then by all means women let it go! One thing for sure, men like freaky women but if you don’t know how to be freaky then don’t try to be something that your not. Freakishness has to be taught! It’s not something that you are born with, so learn how to be freaky before attempting to be freaky! If you see him again you both can talk about being freaky and what both of you would like or what you fantasize about and you can teach one another what you like in bed! |
| 4. Women > Don’t be overly concern about what he thinks of you while you are in bed with him! |
| A lot of women worry way to much about what a man will think of her while shes in bed with him, will he like this or will he like that, should I do this or should I do that…look sex is suppose to be fun so if you have to think to much while doing it then it won’t be fun! You in bed worrying about your weight, will he think your too fat and a hundred other things running though your head! Look let all of that go and enjoy the moment, because trying to plan or control how sex should be will only make it bad. Most of the time you need a second time to get together with your partner for it to be real good because the first time can be a little awkward but that don’t happen all the time! In a lot of situations the first time could be the best, but for all means let it go! Just put it all out of the table and enjoy it and have fun, sex is not to be worried about it is to have fun so kick back., let all that what if crap go and have fun with it! And if you are a freak and know how to be a freak then by all means be a freak! That is for men and women, hell be yourself because if you try to hide it it won’t be fun and the only way you will enjoy it is by being yourself and doing what you feel. Rather your partner likes it or not worry about that after its over unless they say something to you about what your doing in the process of having sex, but if not go for it. |
| 5. Oral Sex, well here is a topic that most people like, because this seems to be what will make a man or a woman cum the hardest, but I beg the differ! |
| 5. Oral Sex, well here is a topic that most people like, because this seems to be what will make a man or a woman cum the hardest, but I beg the differ! I have only went down on three women in my life time and I was married to all three of them, and like I said I have been with over 1000 women! But I know how to please in different ways so I didn’t have a problem not giving oral sex to my partner, but for those of you who think its the greatest thing since slice bread go for it! Now the one thing I will say about oral sex is if you don’t know how to do it I wouldn’t try it on your partner for the first time unless you have been with her or him a while. You need to practice first and then do it! But oral sex can be the biggest turn on for a man or a woman, I use to have a girl that didn’t want me to have sex with her all she wanted to do is give me head and she would cum like crazy while she gave me oral pleasure and I loved it! Not because she was giving me oral, but because she would get so turned on while she was doing it!! Man I tell you guys if you would learn how to think about the female being please before pleasing yourself, your sex life will be though the roof!! Women love that! If you can make a female have multiple orgasms and make her squirt, you will be on her mind…forever!! Trust that! Asked any female that have had multiple orgasms or have squirted before and I guarantee you she can tell you the first person that made her do either one them or both! That person will be stuck in her mind forever! Don’t believe me just asked one who has had it done and see! Ok back to oral sex, if you enjoy oral sex and know how to give it, then by all means make his or her toes curl because if you do it right especially for a guy and even for a woman for that matter you will be remembered! If you don’t know how practice it, it can be learn like anything else and rather you are a man or a women, you can become very good at it. |
| A. In c losing if you just do these 5 steps your sex life will sure be more pleasurable! Remember that pleasing your partner should be your main concern especially for men! Sex should be fun and enjoyable so have sex and enjoy it to the fullest ! If you have any questions or comments just email me or leave a comment. Thanks for visiting. Remember this was done in my own words so if it doesn’t sound politically correct! Ohh well its a blog!!Ps. And if you are a female that is not being satisfied completely and you don’t know how to tell him, email this blog to him. Or email me I will tell him! Now either he will listen or take the chance on losing you or even worst you finding someone who can do what he is not doing! Satisfying you! It’s call creeping!;-)~ Remember communication is the key to any healthy relationship! |
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